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But if you do, that's alright, as well

moonglade-poetess:

tastefullyoffensive:

Bop it, Twist it, Pull it, Spin it, Flick it.


fixed it.

moonglade-poetess:

tastefullyoffensive:

Bop it, Twist it, Pull it, Spin it, Flick it.

fixed it.

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“I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?””

jonsnowflakes:

Collegehumors’ new video is on point as always

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:agged by: yunicake

Rules: Just insert your answers to the questions below. Tag followers

URL: TreesBark

Name: Melinda

Nickname: Mindy 

Birthday: March 8~

Gender: Female

Sexuality: Panromantic? Asexual?

Height: 5’4

Time Zone: EST

Current time and date: August 29th, 12:47 PM.

Average hours of sleep: 6-8 (Sleep is a beautiful thing.)

The last thing I Googled was: My college’s website.

My most used phrase(s): As of recently, “Stupid [noun].”

First word that comes to mind: Umm.

Last thing said to a family member: Shut up.

One place that makes me happy and why: The City, or New York City, when I’m alone. No one to talk to, I go where I please, and no one knows my name. I go into diners, I go into parks and down streets and into shops, I explore, and I find new things. My most recent treasured find is a comedy club that’s open some nights for free, and I go and listen to people try to make each other laugh, and it’s so wonderful.

How many blankets I sleep under: Summer: None or 1, Winter: up to 5

Favorite beverage(s): Jasmine milk tea.

The last movie I watched in the cinema: Guardians of the Galaxy!

Three things I can’t live without: Water, food, and shelter.

Something I plan on learning: How to play my accordion well.

A piece of advice for all my followers: For the love of god, use protection until you’re fucking ready to raise a family. Kids + Raising Kids = No

I’m unsure how to tag people.

blvckzoro:

indikos:

burned my hand curling my hair today

worth it

Man listen….

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